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Beyond the Will: Weddings, Father’s Day, and Estate Planning for Our History By Melinda Gustafson Gervasi June 19, 2026 The third weekend in June brings a unique collision of energy. We are right in the thick of the summer wedding season—a time of new beginnings, crisp tuxedos, and beautiful white gowns. At the exact same time, we pause to honor Father’s Day, a moment to reflect on the men who shaped our families and the legacies they left behind.  For me, this specific time of year always brings back a memory of a unique choice I had to make years ago. After both of my parents had passed away, I found myself doing what so many of my clients eventually have to do: sorting through a lifetime of accumulated belongings. Among the boxes and heirlooms was my great-grandfather’s wedding suit. It was a beautiful, historic piece of our family fabric, but it faced a common question "what can I do with this that is meaningful?" I didn't want it to eventually end up on the racks of ...

Lost to the Cloud: The Hidden Risks of Purely Digital Estate Planning By Melinda Gustafson Gervasi June 12, 2026 Schools Out for the Summer!  My teenagers are thrilled that this school year has come to an end.  Both kids, like me, love and thrive in school.  But after a combined total of 8 AP exams and the conclusion of the rack season, they both need a break.  Over the long, hot summer they'll work on their driving skills, keep up their running habits, work in a bit of travel, and clean their rooms.  This involves the annual purge of papers from the past school year.  But that paper spilling out of their desks and onto the floor reminds me of an important fact related to my work as an estate planning and probate attorney.  Paper can be king! Fun fact about me -- I can still open my 1980s Trapper Keeper from the 1980s (yes, I still have it!), but I cannot open my college files containing my college senior thesis -- a complex regression analysis on the ...

20 Years of Probate, 5 Common Mistakes: What Not to Put in Your Will By Melinda Gustafson Gervasi June 5, 2026 What is a Will, Anyway?  At its core, a Last Will and Testament is a legal document with a specific, focused job: it directs how your probate assets should be distributed after you pass away, and it names the person (the personal representative or executor) responsible for making sure those wishes are carried out. Think of it as the ultimate set of instructions for your probate estate.  Note -- probate assets are those assets that have no co-owner or named beneficiary.  If an asset has a co-owner or named beneficiary, that asset will pass to the person(s) named directly, ignoring the will and avoiding the probate process.  Because a will has such a specific purpose, cramming it full of every final thought, personal detail, or medical wish can actually cause major legal headaches. Over my two decades of practicing estate planning and probate law, I’ve seen a ...

Passports, Packing, and Peace of Mind: The One Thing You Should Not Forget to Pack By Melinda Gustafson Gervasi May 29, 2026 For many, the official launch of summer travel season is here or right around the corner. According to AAA, 45 million Americans traveled over the recent Memorial Day holiday weekend. Homes across America are filled with the chaotic energy of trip preparation: laying out outfits, double-checking flight times, holding the mail, and tracking down that one elusive phone charger.  You are busy making lists to ensure you don’t forget the essentials.  The front door is locked, the thermostat is set, and the mail is on hold.  You are ready to go, but did you overlook a key item? If you are leaving home without your Power of Attorney for Health Care, stop and add this crucial document to your suitcase or carry-on.  A Power of Attorney for Health Care is a document that designates a trusted person to make medical decisions for you if you become incapac...

Passing Down Memories: A Memorial Day Reflection on Rosie Grant’s To Die For: A Cookbook of Gravestone Recipes May 22, 2026 Melinda Gustafson Gervasi As we head into Memorial Day weekend, our calendars naturally fill with family gatherings, backyard cookouts, and shared meals that anchor our holiday traditions. It is a poignant time explicitly dedicated to remembrance, where the flavors on our tables often spark stories of the loved ones who first prepared them. This connection between memory and meals came alive beautifully during a recent gathering of my book group. I coordinate "Book Club with a Twist."; Unlike traditional clubs where everyone reads the same selection under strict deadlines, our members simply gather to report on what they have read lately. There is no pressure to finish a book or to choose something that appeals to the masses; instead, we are gently nudged to keep reading just to have a fresh discovery to share. The only true hazard of our untraditional f...

The Clear Path: What Bird Migration Can Teach Us About Estate Planning By Melinda Gustafson Gervasi May 15, 2026 It’s officially migration season here in Madison, Wisconsin . This week, I’ve been busy stocking my feeders and, more importantly, turning off my outdoor lights at night .  If you’ve been following the local news, you know that artificial light can disorient birds, leading them off-course during their long journey. By "dimming the lights," we provide them with a clear, safe passage. It occurred to me that estate planning is very much the same. Our goal is to remove the "glare" of confusion so our loved ones can navigate the probate process without getting lost. If you want to make your final affairs easier for those following behind you, here are five "navigation markers" you can set today: 1. Review Your Beneficiary Forms Think of these as your North Star. Because beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and life insurance policies typic...